What People Say About NDT Training with Michael Phillips

NDT Success Stories: From Michael Phillips

  CASE STUDY #1 Palm Springs Val

She came from Canada, left her husband after 25 years of verbal abuse. Husband came home and said: “I’ve got a new girlfriend”. 

Of course, she was stunned and mad. Did a year in therapy.

She did NDT with me and immediately returned home back to Canada.

I called back two days later to see how she was doing and she said she was going to send me a postcard…

I said “How nice!”

And she said “Yeah, but I’m not so sure you’re going to like what I put on the postcard. I’m not so glad I did the NDT.”

I said “Woah, what’s going on?

Val said she was cranky, depressed, and woke up sobbing at night.

Val, being a registered professional nurse, took a pill to knock her out, she said she used this pill during the last 15 years and nothing could wake her up when she takes it.

Second night: Wakes up sobbing again and she said “I came down here to Palm Springs to have fun, and now look at me. I was doing fine until you did that NDT on me”. And this is supposed to be a success story?

I then said, “You know, Val, you WERE doing fine, in denial before NDT. Now that you’ve let go, think of the money you’ve saved by letting go of his nasty situation so soon. How many months or years in therapy did you save?

Val says: Well, yes, I guess so, but, why did I let this happen? Why did I put up with his shit for 25 years?

I said: Look, you’ve just transferred your anger from him to you. Do you hear what you’re saying? You don’t need a man around to verbally abuse you. My goodness, look at what you are doing by saying this to yourself. Let’s go to the mirror again and do NDT for you, this time.

Now she’s happy with her new makeover and starting dating and starting off on the right energy level.

CASE STUDY #2 Chalya

Chalya saw NDT done on a mutual friend…

She liked what she saw.

She was not ready to do it for herself.

She felt the clearing of denial might be of some use to her.

I tested her and she was weak on #2 (Can she talk to her body?)

The answer was NO! 

Fixed it-she’s now clear.

She called 3 days later, ecstatic…

“I want to thank you. I know I did not do the NDT but the clearing was fantastic! It helped me in my job. I could finally see what I wanted and felt the willpower to say it for the first time to my bosses.

I wrote a letter to the corporate heads of my office and explained I wanted a raise and a vote of confidence.

Either I get back my old position or a raise, or I’m going to leave the company.

“I’m ready to go on with my life.”

Good, bad, or indifferent, I was glad to make this issue come forth. I’ve just sat around for the last three years, unable to speak up. Thanks so much, it’s fantastic, can’t wait to do the rest.” 

CASE STUDY #3 Kaylyn Harker

Kaylyn took an eye reading class and wanted to be certified.

Did NDT near the end of the class and nothing “really happened”.

When she got back home, everyone kept asking her, What’s wrong with you? Several people asked her this. A third person asked, Are you okay?

Kaylyn says, I’m fine! What do you mean, “What’s wrong?” And they said, well, you’re so different.

She says, No I’m not, nothing has happened.

They said, Oh yes it has…you’re so…centered…you’re so soft.

Kaylyn says at least 4 different people told her this, all in one day.

She also said that she noticed her eyes were moister and more relaxed than ever before, and her eyes seemed to change to the same size. She always had one eye that was a little larger than the other.

This effect lasted 5 weeks until she had a big blow-up with her husband…

Her eyes went back to dry almost immediately after the argument.

She had originally worked with NDT on her father issues. It seems apparent now she needs to do it again for her husband.

CASE STUDY #4 A Man of Wisdom

I was asked to do a seminar for a husband and wife in Richland Washington. The husband was the quiet one, but he was always nodding. I noticed this right away, and asked him if he was nodding because he agreed with the stuff being said, or if he knew it at a deeper level already. He said that he already knew it at the deeper level. 

I said to him: Then if you do know this at a deeper level, why are you not sharing more of your knowledge with the group?

And he said: Oh, you know, people don’t listen to me. 

I said: Really? Why is that?

I tested him and something came up around the age of 9 years old and I said, what happened when you were nine? 

And he said, “I broke my leg.” 

I said, “How did that happen?”

And then he told me the following story: “We were told not to play on the playground asphalt, but we decided we were going to do it anyway. We were fooling around on the Monkey bars, remember those? and I fell and broke my leg. At least, there was some hairline fracture that was very painful. I told my teacher what happened, and She DIDN’T BELIEVE ME.

 I hobbled home about a block and a half away and told my mother that I think I broke my leg…and she said, don’t be silly, you’re fine.” 

So, she went out for the evening, and when she came back at 10 pm, his leg had swollen 5 times the size of his normal leg.

And it just so happens that procrastination was one of his wife’s main complaints against him.

And I ask you class, now, all of you: How do you think he learned to procrastinate so badly? He says nothing to anyone, and doesn’t share his knowledge, because of this incident when he was 9 years old teacher/mother, discounted his word, so nobody listens to him.

CASE STUDY #5 The San Jose Story 

I was invited to teach a class in San Jose, and I was to stay at the sponsor’s home. She led me into the guest bedroom that had close to 40 different certificates on the wall of accomplishments that she had done.

I turned around and looked at her and said, “What do you need me for, when you’ve got all of this? I’ve only had two years of City College.”

She said she loved learning.

I said, “Well, do you do anything with all this stuff that you’ve learned?”

And she said, “Well, actually, no I don’t.”

This surprised the hell out of me, because she seemed so capable!

We did NDT and the issue that came up was a belief that if she taught what she knew, she’d also have to live up to the stuff that she taught, and she didn’t think that she could put it into practice.

After her NDT session, she started teaching the different classes that she had gotten certificates for, and let go of the belief that she had to be so friggin perfect, and that she had to be the perfect daughter for her father, and that she believed all that bullshit her entire life, so all she did was collect 40 certificates without doing any of them until she finally realized the jail sentence, she had given herself about being perfect.  

CASE STUDY #6 The Aromatherapy Oil Story 

I have three aromatherapy oils that I use in NDT. They are Forgiveness, Transformation, and White Light. People usually love the smell of these things. I was in Waco, Texas, teaching a class, and the host of the seminar and her lady friend couldn’t stand the smell of the three oils, and refused to have them used in the NDT, which I thought was amazing, considering I’ve never had anyone not like them.

I did NDT with them. The next day, I caught them early in the morning before class, applying these oils on their neck and wrist. I walked in and said, “WHAT are you doing?”

And they said, well, we really like these now…

I said: What do you think caused you to like them now and not before?

They had no clue.

I’ll allow you, class, to decide what allowed them to have that change.

Note: You can buy these oils from Youngliving.com; they are expensive but I think they are the best on the market. The phone number is 1-800-371-3515.

CASE STUDY #7 Mary Anne

Mary Anne always wanted to open a healing center with her husband.

She wanted to be in the background and have her husband be the head honcho.

The husband hates the idea and wants no part of it.

Yearsgo by, and Mary Anne considers that maybe it’s her dream…not his.

Mary Anne did the “cantillation” and that is the Jewish word for heart song, what you really want to do from the depths of your soul. She also cleared her father issues and she cried so hard I thought she was going to have a heart attack. 

Within 3 days, her husband announced, as if it was a brand new thought to him and it was his idea AND he had never heard of it, “Hey, let’s do a healing school!” 

Lesson: Sometimes, you just have to let go of something. You have to plant the seed and let it be. When you change and let go, the people around you change.

CASE STUDY #8 Scott and Joyce  

(At the Apple Computer meeting)

Ref: This is an example of how fast NDT can work.

My friend Scott called me Tuesday evening and asked me what I was doing. I said I was going to an Apple Computer meeting, and he said, I want to go! 

I said, Okay, but JOYCE is going to be there. (Scott and Joyce have a history of not liking each other.) 

He goes, well, I don’t care, I want to go to the meeting with you anyway.

So, I said okaaaaay, said with a tone of caution/ disbelief.

I made sure that I sat in the middle between the two of them, and the time for the evening break came, and Scott got up and disappeared. I guess he went to the bathroom, I don’t know…

Joyce stayed with me for a while (maybe 10 minutes)

Then, I sat by myself waiting for them to come back, which was about another 10 minutes. They dimmed the houselights, and people came back in, and Joyce and Scott were nowhere to be seen. I thought that rather odd.

A half an hour later, they still hadn’t come back, and I was really worried because I was not the designated driver!

Another half hour goes by, the meeting is finished, and they STILL haven’t come back in the auditorium.

I got up and went into the lobby, and this is what I found: the two of them were sitting in a corner having a HILARIOUS conversation. The two of them were laughing and giggling and teetering back on forth on the seats.

When Joyce left to go home, I got in the car with Scott and said WHAT HAPPENED with you and Joyce? I thought you didn’t like her!

He said OH!, there’s nothing wrong with Joyce, I like her just fine.

You could have knocked me over with a feather! What changed, I said? 

He said, Oh, that’s right, I didn’t tell you. When I got up to go to the bathroom, I did NDT in the mirror on Joyce. It only took 4 minuets, came back out, and there she was, and we sat down, and that was the beginning of a new friendship.

And THAT’S how fast NDT can work.

Note: I’ve even done NDT in the rear view mirror of my car! 

CASE STUDY #9  Another example of how fast New Decision Therapy can work: My friend Michelle was always saying ”It seems my problem is I always takes ONE step forward and Two steps backwards. Year after Year!”

Ok: So we do NDT on why she couldn’t trust herself to go forward without falling backwards. We finish NDT- She’s sitting in my office for about five minutes. A mutual friend come in and as he passes by says “Hello” – don’t know why I said aloud to Michelle Hey! Michelle, tell Craig what problem you were working on in you mirror session -She said that she always could take two steps forward and one step backwards!

I said repeat back what you just said aloud? And she repeats wrong again without realizing it--- say it again please, and really listen to your self, this time- now she realizes she cant even say it correctly anymore. I recheck in with her about the two steps backwards thing every now and then. She denies the two steps backwards stuff and says “anyway that part is no longer happening. Result:sometimes this IS how fast NDT can work on somebody. WOW!

CASE STUDY #10 Jack and the pillows on the bed

A client named Jack wanted to do NDT and he said to me, I think I have a problem. When I go to sleep at night, I have to take all the pillows off the bed before I can go to sleep.

I said why is that? Are you afraid they are going to fall on the floor?

He said, No, I just can’t sleep with pillows on the bed. I know it sounds strange, and I thought I had a “pillow phobia” or something. I’ve always enjoyed reading in bed before I go to sleep, and I would prop up all the pillows behind me for support.

 However, I must tell you, one night, I had to take everything off of the bed each and every night. I just can’t bear to have them on the bed. I can’t relax, I can’t sleep. 

I said, how long has this been going on?

And he said, about a year and a half, since Louis died. (Louis was his lover)

We did NDT and forgave Louis for dying and leaving him to carry on alone.

Jack says that it seemed like he was in front of the mirror for 5 minutes, but in reality, it was 35 minutes. He wasn’t necessarily impressed, and did not believe that “anything happened” during the session.

On the third night after NDT, Jack said he accidentally forgot about the pillows and fell asleep.

Jack said it was quite shocking because he had never forgotten to remove the pillows in over a year and a half.

Jack says, “All I know is that Michael told me not to judge NDT for a three day period. 

After thinking about the NDT, I was able to understand what the symbology of the pillows represented. I believe that I was afraid of the pillows because maybe one or two of the pillows would get under the comforter at night, and I would get up to go to the bathroom, and I would come back and it would look like Louis was under the covers. I was worried I would roll over and touch one of the pillows and cuddle with it, thinking it was Louis.

I believe that fear is what I finally released. I still had all of Louis’ clothes in the closet, and on a really bad day, I would just go into the closet and pick one of the shirts that he had, and hold it against my body. It would still have a little bit of his smell on it, and it would just stop my body from shaking.

After the 3 days of NDT, I was able to remove all of his clothes from the closet after a year and a half and take them to Goodwill.”

Thank you NDT and Michael, it was great.

CASE STUDY # 11 Delo Wood: Sleeping

In eye reading, we look into both eyes to look at patterns. On every human being, one eye will have more patterns in it than the other eye.

If you have more patterns in your right eye, that usually means that you sleep on the right side of the body more often than the left side and that you were closer to your father at birth. 

The opposite is true for the left eye, and you were closer to your mother at birth.

My friend Delo had more patterns in her right eye, and I told her that she had a habit of sleeping on the right side of the body.

She countered with, “I never sleep on the right side of my body”

And I thought, Okay…

When tested, Delo needed to work on father issues.

She finished NDT, and now she loves sleeping on the right side of her body. She actually woke up several times at night to check to see what side of the body she slept on, and it was always the right side.

CASE STUDY #12 The Mormon Woman 

The Mormon woman had her eyes interpreted, and there was a major issue with anger with men.

In eye reading terminology, this means that whatever happens in her life, it is always somebody else’s fault, and never hers.

In fact, she will even attract to her angry issues with men 1-3 times a year to keep this area activated in her eye.

This story is an example of how the counselor needs to be aware of clients when they come in with a “hit list”. By “hit list”, I mean a long list of people they think they need to forgive. My advice to all of you is to never trust a person’s “hit list”, because it is usually NOT really the people they need to forgive. 

I saw in her eye some red blood lines that indicated she had 3 abortions, and when I asked her, have you had 2 abortions? 

She said, how did you know??

During her NDT session, she said, “the person I need to forgive is my dad.

NO!!

The person I need to forgive is my brother, Tom.

NO!!

The person I need to forgive is my second brother, Ken.

NO!!

The person I need to forgive is the pastor of my church, Bishop Smith.

NO!!”

I thought to myself, what in the world is going on with this hit list? 

I said, Okay, just stop it. Stop it.

I told her, now look in your left eye, and say, the person I need to forgive is MYSELF. 

Explanation: So you see, this was not about the anger issues with men (there well may be anger issues with men) but what was going on here was that these men were all important people in the Mormon Church. Her brothers were all ministers and her father was a bishop. 

What do you think they felt about her having 3 abortions and being a Mormon woman? (The women are supposed to be perfect, but the men can get away with anything)

So, when she forgave herself, then she ended up saying I forgive myself for all of the judgment and negativity and religious condemnation from all of the men in my life. What’s done is done, and I’m changed. I’m ready to go on, and now I can forgive the people that originally, I would not have forgiven. Now that I’ve forgiven myself, I can forgive them.

CASE STUDY #13 Carolyn in Texas

This is a story of when I first started doing NDT, and I would do a live presentation with someone in front of a mirror for an audience, which is pretty risky stuff, because you just don’t know what is going to happen. The following story is going to illustrate why I don’t do that anymore, or at least, not very often.

So, here goes:

Carolyn is in front of an audience of 30 people, looking in a mirror with lights on her face. Everyone else is behind her is in the dark for an added sense of privacy and security. 

She had tested for forgiving herself, and I was thinking, Oh good, this is an easy one.

I say the first sentence to Carolyn, and ask her to repeat it. The sentence was: I forgive myself for…

Carolyn says, I forgive myself for living…and I’m thinking O KAYYYYYYYYYYYY maybe this is not going to be so easy.

Second sentence: Carolyn says I understand that I am in the dark, I’m frozen, they never touched me…

And now I’m thinking, Holy moly, wow! What in the hell just happened? I’m here in public trying to show a SIMPLE NDT and this is sounding more & more like an exorcism! 

I say, Carolyn, is there any light around you? Carolyn, walk toward the light…

Carolyn: I can’t! 

I thought to myself, “What the hell are you talking about, you can’t??” This is supposed to a public explanation of why this is good, and you’re making me look really bad. I was thinking, I got to get control of this thing right away, before I embarrass myself any more than I already have.

So, I said: Why can’t you?

Carolyn says: I don’t know!

I said“Walk toward the light”

And she says Noooo!

I repeat “Walk toward the light” and her answer is still Noooo!

So, my NEXT great idea is to ask: Are you moving to the light?

And she starts to scream loudly “Oh! The pain, the pain!”

I’m thinking to myself, Please God, I need some guidance, please just get me through this, because this is not going well!

We get down to sentence #4: I love and accept myself exactly the way I am. 

I say:Carolyn, how do you feel?

Her answer: “Oh, my shoulder, the pain, it hurts and hurts”

I finally say: Can you imagine MOVING toward the light in your mind?

And she finally does it, and we end the session. 

Analysis: So what’s happening here (in public, thank you very much) is that Carolyn was having a pre-birth experience, that neither she nor I could see at the time. Her parents adopted her because they thought they could not have other children, and later they found out they could and had 7 children of their own, and she was not accepted. 

She was left in the cold and in the dark, and the reason why she couldn’t walk was because you can’t walk around in the womb. The pain in her shoulders was because it is the widest part that comes through the birth canal, and she was having a re birthing experience right there in public. She had to be “born again” in order to have self-love. She was picking up on the physical pain as well as the non-acceptance from her mother.

By the way, Carolyn hasn’t spoken to her mother in 25 years.

Within 2 weeks, she decided to go the mirror on her own and forgive her mother, and now they have a much closer relationship.

CASE STUDY #14 Ski Lift Story

I had a client that, in childhood, wanted to be a dancer. When we tested for blockages of what to work on, the age of1 came up. 9, 11, and 40 years old also came up. These are usually indications of major life defeating decisions.

1 year old: Her mother was in Europe with her and they were on a gondola going up a mountain. It was crowded and people were leaning against the door, and the mother was holding her as a one-year-old baby, not leaning against the door, but close to it. Somehow the door opened and the mother fell out of the gondola, with the baby in her arms…

Within one second, the mother threw the baby up in the air, and someone in the gondola grabbed it by the legs, and pulled it back into the gondola, and the mother plunged to her death.

9 years old:

So, I said to her, what happened at age 9?

She said she was in dance classes until the age of 9, and one day, she overheard her dance instructor whispering to another teacher, “Oh, she’s never going to make it as a dancer because of “something” with her legs”.

Isn’t that nice to hear? The teacher you look up to…

When she quit dancing, that was the 2nd decision not to live.

Age 11: 

What happened at age 11? I asked

She said she went to a county fair and they were riding the Ferris wheel, and you know how that bar that goes across the front of you when you are in the seat to keep you from falling out? 

She said that her and her friend put their legs on top of it, and it opened, and her friend fell out and got hurt somewhat badly. 

You never know what you’re going to hear in front of the mirror when these people open up…it’s so dramatic. She began to develop leg circulation problems.

Age 40:

At age 40, she is with her husband, and they are having an argument, and he announces that he wants a divorce, and like a scene out of Gone With the Wind, he walks out on her. When he gets to the door, he turns around and says to her, “By the way, you’ll never get anyone to love you or marry you again because your legs are so ugly”. 

The truth is, there was nothing wrong with her legs, they are not ugly.

She does NDT and forgives her mother for dying and leaving her to carry on alone, forgives her dance instructor that made her give up her dream to be a dancer, forgives the girl on the Ferris wheel, forgives the ex-husband, and then works on herself.

I hadn’t heard from her in 2 years and she calls me up one night and says, Hi Mike this is Jane. Do you remember me, I wanted to be a dancer and stuff like that? Well, I took your advice and decided I was going to start dancing again, and my dance teacher says that I was really, really good, and couldn’t believe how fast I progressed, and I’m so happy that I’m living my dream now, thanks to New Decision Therapy.

Note: Oh, and by the way, did I tell you that this woman is 72 years old and FINALLY living her dream? That is the kind of power we are dealing with when people make the decision to live their lives. 

CASE STUDY #15 People’s Temple

A client says that before she can sleep at night, her mother has to be in the hallway, her brother has to be in the bathroom, and her sister has to be in the kitchen. 

I thought to myself, Gee, that’s kind of weird…

And then she says, And the next night, they all must trade places. My sister in the hallway, my brother in the kitchen, and my mother in the bathroom. 

I said, Well, how long has this been going on?

She said, Oh, only about 14 years.

I said, 14 YEARS??!! Honey, you must have had hypnotherapy or psychotherapy or something, right?

She said, Yeah, but none of that stuff worked.

Note: You got to remember, I had only been doing NDT for about 2 months. What was I supposed to be doing here? This is where you just have to ask for spiritual guidance, sometimes.

Analysis: The issue here is that the mom, sister, and brother are all cremated, and she had been moving the urns from room to room before she could sleep every night. 

Note: Just when you think you’ve heard EVERYTHING, you’ll always be surprised by what people say. Let’s go back and find out what happened.

Mickey and her mother were members of the People’s Temple in Jonestown, Guyana. Remember that, when those 900 people died? She & her Mother They were still in Oakland at the People’s Temple, and they worked 5 years, 7 days a week, 12 hour days at Oakland and the father left the family because he couldn’t control of his wife, and she wanted to be a part of this religious cult, and wouldn’t listen to the rest of the family. The father left with her brother, and the mother and daughter were working and earned the right to go to Guyana. 

On the day of the massacre, she was out of the compound in town with another worker, and she was 12 or 13 years old at that time. They heard over the radio that there was an attack on the compound, and they rushed to get back to the compound, and the authorities were already there, not allowing them to enter. They had to wait outside for 3 days. 

When she was let in, she saw piles of bodies lying there for three days in the sun, stacked 6 or 7 feet high. In those piles, her mother, two aunts, and two uncles were lying dead. 

P.S. She had tried to get rid of the cremated remains for most of the 14 years that she had them, but just couldn’t. 

Example: She would get in the car with the ashes, start driving, and 10 minutes, later, she didn’t even know where she was. She would sometimes drive for half an hour, and suddenly come to, and she wouldn’t know where she was. She couldn’t part with the ashes, and this happened over and over.

At the end of the 3 day NDT flux period, where you are not to do anything or have any judgments, she suddenly gets the urge to release the ashes. She goes to the forest and digs a hole in the ground, and lines it with amethyst crystals, places the ashes in the hole, and makes her peace with it. 

She went home that evening and put a phone call into her father, who she had not spoken to for 22 years, and said Hi Dad, this is your daughter Mickey. I know that we haven’t been on good terms, but I’ve been working with a new decision to change my life, and I’d like to have a relationship with you.

CASE STUDY #16 Gay Lovers Break Up

I had two friends that were gay and were lovers, and they decided that they were going to break up, it just wasn’t working out. They didn’t have enough money to move out, so they were going to stay as roommates. That might work out, right?

HOWEVER-each person started to bring home guys, and each of them would get mad at the other for bringing people home. 

So, one guy does NDT, and he didn’t even want to do it because he didn’t believe in it and didn’t think anything would happen, but I beat a dead horse with a stick until he decided to do it. (As you know we can do with some of our friends)

He called me up after he had done it, about a week later, and said to me, I didn’t even believe in this stuff, but it works. You don’t need to have faith in NDT to get it on the body level. 

My ex brought home some guy, and I could hear them in the bedroom doing their stuff, and it would always make me really angry, and I would just sit there in a heated stupor, and I kept waiting for the heat to come into my body and face, and it didn’t. I kept waiting for the anger to come up, and nothing happened. I couldn’t get in touch with what I was angry about.

And then I decided, well maybe I’m NOT angry.

CASE STUDY #17 How did Michael Phillips find out about NDT?

One day, my friend Scott calls me up and says, “Hi, what are you doing?”

I said “Oh…um, n o t h i n g.”

He says, “Do you want to do something tonight?”

And I said, “Oh, well, m a y b e….”

He says, “Do you want me to come over?”

And I said, “Oh, well, I don’t know…”

He said, “Why are you acting so weird?

I said, Am I acting weird? What do you mean?

He said, “Yeah you’re acting weird”.

He said, Oh I know, you don’t know who this is, do you?

And I said, no actually, I don’t know. Who is this?

He said, Well, this is Scott.

Scott? Scott who?

And he said, “Scott, your best friend for the last 10 years…”

Why do you sound so different and wonderful??

OH, I took a seminar this weekend and I got my will to live fixed with NDT. (New decision therapy)

I said, don’t move, don’t go anywhere, don’t do anything, I’m coming over immediately to find out.

I drove from Hollywood to the Valley, and I walked up to the front door, Bang, Bang, Bang. Door opens, I could tell within one second the radiance in his face, and I knew something incredible and dramatic had happened to him. 

Little did I realize that he would introduce me to the NDT, which not only would bring healing into my life, but would also end up being the “missing link” for the RAYID eye reading technique? 

So, to continue this story, you know now how I found out about NDT, but you do not know how it healed a major part of my life-so let’s do that part.

I was a “wannabe” healer. I had been doing RAYID eye reading for about 6 years, and I was teaching private organ and piano, Monday-Friday. I was doing the eye readings in the evenings and on weekends. It seems like I just couldn’t make the jump to do it professionally full time. So, I took the NDT class, and the topic that came up for me was my father’s death when I was 9 years old.

When you have issues with father, the metaphor of father, male, material world, money, persistence, follow through, patience…all these words are gifts that you get from the father, divine and otherwise. If you get screwed up somehow, for whatever reason, with the physical father or divine father, it is going to affect your ability to earn a living or do things in the male physical world.

At the time, I had 35 jobs in 6 years, and I was fired from 30 of those 35 jobs, so I knew REAL well what low self-esteem was all about. 

It was so bad that I finally went to the psychiatrist. I said, “I’ll stay for a year, and after that, I’m done”. Well, I learned a few things, and that was the beginning of the 6 year period where I was learning about eye reading.

I went to a birthday party, and a woman was there that could read the eyes, and she looked in my eye for about ten seconds and said, “Oh, I know what your problem is. Your father never recognized you for who you are, or what you want to do, or where you want to be with your life.”

“What you do is try is hard but fail, in fact-your father never got recognized by his father for who he was or what he wanted to do or be with his life.You were born into a family where the men on fathers’ side of the family have been seeking self-recognition and forgiveness of each other”. 

I was completely stunned and it was perfectly true, but what was I supposed to do with this information? Eye reading was great, but how do you fix what you see in the eye? This is the gift that Scott, with his NDT, introduced me to.

I did one session-20 minutes-of NDT. So what? I thought. I shed a tear or two, forgiving my father for leaving me to carry on alone, but I didn’t think anything had really happened, and nothing happened. For 90 days, when suddenly I started getting bookings for the eye reading class. I had bookings a year and a half in advance. All over the United States, and I was making $7,000 a weekend doing Rayid Eye Readings.

I don’t know about you, but I was convinced. 

CASE STUDY #18 Montana Ear Story

There was a lady in Montana that did the cantillation, and she found out what it was that she wanted to do with her life, but she didn’t like what she heard. She wanted it to be easier. So, she asked if she could do the NDT technique at lunch, and we did it. 

Something came up around the age of 7 years old-it was something to do with her getting sore throats every other week, continually. The doctors decided to take out her tonsils and adenoids. 1950’s that’s what they did.

She was going to be forgiving her mother for leaving her and making her life so difficult.

She said she had a flashback in the mirror-she started to remember things. She knew that her mother left her and her family around 7 or 8 years old, but she was never told the truth. She didn’t know or understand the reasons why her mother left.

In the mirror, a “memory picture” came up of her strapped to a gurney, in a corridor of a hospital, waiting for the operation room to clear. Her mother was there at her side, when suddenly she said, “Wait right here, I have to go to the bathroom”, and she left. Her mother didn’t come back, and time passed.

Her mother didn’t return, and the girl panicked and started to cry. The nurses, trying to calm her down, were lying about where her mother went.

Everyone was running around the hospital looking for her mother. The excuses happened 3 or 4 times and she was panicking so much and crying so hard that they had to cancel her operation. 

The mother evidently left her home, her husband, and her child, and never returned. 

So, as she was forgiving her mother for leaving her, I asked her a question: “Did you ever stop and think that the reason you can’t hear out of your left ear is because you didn’t want to hear the lies told to you by the doctors and nurses?” 

She didn’t believe that, saying she wasn’t that gullible. She also said: And let me straighten you out on something else, buddy, I’ve had my hearing checked every year since childhood, and the diagnosis is always the same, I had a viral infection in my inner ear. 

I said, “Well, okay, I’ve been wrong before. Let’s go on and finish”.

After lunch, about an hour and a half into the class, she stood up suddenly in the back of the room and screamed loudly, “Oh my god! My ear, my ear!” 

She was holding her ear and looking down on the floor. I looked up and saw her doing that, and thought her friggin ear had fallen off.

So, I said, “What’s wrong?”

She said, “I’m beginning to hear sounds in my left ear”.

I smiled sweetly and said, “Well, isn’t that special?” in a sarcastic tone of voice, since I knew something was going to happen.

Another hour and a half goes by, and she screams, “Oh my god, it’s happening again!”

She claimed to be hearing parts of complete sentences.

By the end of the evening, she could hear about 80% in the ear that was completely deaf at the beginning of class. The good ear improved 20% to 60%. 

The second day of class, she came up to me just before we started class and handed me a note.

I read the note, and it said Please can I be excused from class, I am not feeling well.

I asked what was wrong and she shook her head, pointing to her throat.

I asked if something was wrong with her throat, and she nodded her head.

I said, “It isn’t a sore throat, is it?”

She swallowed hard and nodded her head. 

I backed away and started to grin, and said, “Do you realize what is happening with this? I think what is happening is that you are getting a healing from the cellular memory on up. Remember, you went to the hospital for the sore throat, but that ballooned into your mother leaving you for the rest of your life. Not only is your hearing turned back on, but you are getting a full healing from the cellular memory on up”. 

On the third day of the class, she walked in and was absolutely radiant. She had been kind of the town grouch, with lots of wrinkles. Her face had smoothed out and she looked about 20 years younger.

I am still in touch with her every now and then, and she still remembers that healing as one of the best that she has ever had. 

I know there must be psychiatrists or psychoanalysts that have similar stories, but after how many months or even years of therapy?

I am not too sure that they could have done it in one 20 minute session in front of the mirror?  The mirror of miracles! 

Note: Possible new discovery . Michael Phillips believes that this observation is a new insight to the NDT work. He has coined the term “Awakening The Twin Within” for this section of the work. Michael has noticed that:

“there is always an invisible stream of energy flowing FROM the client into the mirror.”

On many occasions there are times where the energy seems to reverseif itself. 

The practitioner can sense this change because the “Person” in the mirror is suddenly more like “pleading” with the real person standing OUTSIDE the mirror. 

If this energetic reverses its direction, you’ll feel the difference. It’s almost like a feeling of being drawn inward into the mirror -

It usually happens when a client is looking into their LEFT EYE (same sex) and working on themselves with some issue. The client seems to stop their energy flow (The Auric Field) Kandis used to say that too much crying affects this field , the reflection now becomes “Alive” wanting a connection from the mirror, to the client.

Example: let’s say Sally is forgiving herself for staying in a bad relationship. And at some point you notice the energy reversal –you may back up and repeat sentence #4

Sally I love you and accept you just as you are.

Sally I want to BE you, and I AM YOU !

So they now bond and connect to their “Twin Within” That inner essence that has ALWAYS been there for them. 

Analysis:So, they (at some level) unconsciously abandoned themselves. And never knew it. This was a TWO issue rather than just a one issue (her in a bad relationship) experience for them.

CASE STUDY # 19 Ken in Santa Fe New Mexico

“Awakening the Twin Within” R

2-21-1998 . . . . (Samara’s Husband Ken) 

R Eye weak, His Mom had a very LONG lingering illness. 

“Mom I forgive you for making me stay here “. . .

“Mom I forgive you for making me stay when I wanted to go “. . . 

Session Completed on forgiving Mom - - -not listed here.

L  Eye now tests weak. (We now work on Himself)

1. Ken I forgive you for not wanting to live . . . 

2. Ken I understand that you’re only here because of your duty to your Mother. . . 

3. I let go of my Anger and Hurt over of being trapped and alone.

4. Ken I love you and accept you just as you are.

This is where the shift occurred; He was in the middle of gently sobbing when I saw the “Twin within” effect. When he continued, I could feel and see this Guy standing in front of the mirror – and his Twin in the mirror pleading for a CONNECTION. I believe the twin is ALWAYS there as a part you. It usually goes unnoticed. Suddenly I ask him to repeat a NEW sentence.

Ken I want to BE you . . . .  and I AM YOU!

The effect was ELECTRIFYING – I said Ken, Look at that Guy –That’s your twin - He may be asking for a connection Don’t you know that you’ve never been truly alone? Here is a chance for a partnership with yourself. Say it again, Ken I want to Be you and I AM YOU!

5. And now it’s time to go on with my life!

6. I’m am ready to be the new me and that makes me HAPPY!

I’m am ready to be the new me and that makes me HEALTHY!

I’m am ready to be the new me and that makes me REALLY WANT TO LIVE!

Analysis: Have you ever thought that connection with a “soulmate” could be yourself? A reconciliation of your inner self recognized in a conscious way.

As an end note: Ken died a year later. He had been sick for years with a lingering illness. His wife had a Vedic horoscope done on him and the astrologer said that Ken’s time had already past a year before, and she knew the truth of it intuitively. 

His wife told me also she was somewhat psychic and at times heard a voice completely not in her thoughts that said “I want to leave!’ LOUDLY – the year before he did the mirror work. She never thought it was coming from HIM! 

She, at the time thought she was going crazy. “What in hell, where did THAT just come from? This happened 3-4 times over two months.

Ten years went by and I just got in contact with her last month, after all that time. We had a chance to talk over Ken Mirror work and she cried as she found out what he was saying in the mirror. OH! thank you Michael she said. I had always wondered if it was Kens voice I was hearing, and now that we have discussed what he was saying in the mirror I feel so much at peace with him passing the way he did.

Check this out: It sometimes turns out that this day now becomes their new rebirthday? Have them do a numerology reading add the month, day and year to a single digit and THAT will be their new life path number to follow. It’s quite fun to watch them see themselves as a NEW life path.

Case study # 20 Shane-Singing Artist & Composer. VS Joyce & Scott 

She had a recording engineer/producer that was an obnoxious jackass, full of himself. Unwilling to listen to her, he knew best, better, and what her soul wanted, unaccepting of ANY input from her. And it was HER SONG, Her STYLE and HER MONEY!

She did NDT herself, on Him, forgiving him for all the above. Went in a week later, hoping not to “get Into it” He SEEMED to be somewhat “low key”. 

And she decided she still wanted Her ideas put into place. She remembered that in the mirror her anger with him just got in the way, making her appear “Difficult” She let go of her persona of being difficult while looking in the mirror. As she told the story, she insists that nothing happened in the mirror she still felt the same way about him. so, things got busy they did a lot of stuff on the song and before she knew it she realized she got everything she wanted from him and MORE! 

She pointed out to me that HE was the one who had changed! I pointed out to her, that She change FIRST – and he picked up on that fact and it helped HIM to adjust his attitude toward her, She was so happy she ended up taking him to dinner.

Case Study #21 ATM RAPE (The Last Straw)

This Example is about finding out the “Moment in Time” when the life force was diminished.

To this day when I think about it, it shows how true and important this part of NDT really is. The reason you go through all this is because most client’s still want to believe that their pain or anger will “go away” by itself. This is an opportunity for the client to SEE, FEEL, the past life event that the body is holding on to. Also, as a facilitator it taught me how hard the soul fights, before giving up it’s life energy.

BACKGROUND: A television news anchor that wanted to do NDT. Her and a friend were going to dinner and the theater that night. She needed to stop at the ATM machine and ask her friend to pull into the lot. It was dark already by 6 PM so she goes to the side of the Bank to get some cash – and a Man jumps out from the bushes and within 45 seconds has her dress up and her panties down. 

–Hands around Her throat, He tells Her “I gonna screw you until you’re dead” – Now, where will the last straw be? When she gave up on life? With a show of hands, how many of you say that it was the rape? “I know I did” – nope, not that. 

Her friend, horror panicked drove away! – How about THAT? Was that the last straw? Nope- not that. 

Was it when they found the rapist, and he got free on a technicality? How about that? That’s got to be it right? Nope – 

Well, What was the LAST STRAW? I was so worried/frustrated that I could not pinpoint the exact timing. Usually it’s very easy.

The LAST STRAW was that Her friend REFUSED TO TESTIFY AT THE TRIAL. 

So with all the horror- the part that did the most damage was the BETRAYAL of her best friend who was too “Sensitive” to go through a trial. WOW! 

I tell you this in the hopes that you will not be put off by the drama you might get from time to time. Rather I’d hope that you can now see and appreciate the power of New Decision Therapy – To turn around a situation like this – She could have spent years in talk therapy? been angry with God for “Allowing” this to happen? Hated men the rest of her life? Etc.….. 

The beauty, peace, and freedom She now understands that to heal, one must learn that you are spirit, not body, at your core. 

Spirit is untouched, pure, whole, and not violated. You are here on earth to learn a few lessons and help others to live better lives. 

So it is time to get on with your mission and your life. Indeed, it is time to use your trauma as a springboard to move you ahead much faster than you otherwise would have done.

When viewed this way, rape or any other trauma can move a woman or man forward in wonderful ways.

It simply means that holding on to any trauma with its anger, hatred and resentment, is not worth it and only makes one worse.

Forgiving also means that you accept the idea that we sometimes do not understand why things occur. Let it go anyway.

It also means forgiving all men, all penises, all sexuality, and even letting go of general anger toward the world. This is a tall order, I realize, but absolutely essential. Good counseling may help, especially if it is all about forgiveness, not about who did what and how horrible it all was.  That is okay for a few days, perhaps, after an incident. Then let it go and stop rehashing it. Avoid any counselor who just wants you to hold on to your “justified” anger. There is no such thing.